My dog is very controlling in general, with people and other dogs. Sometimes,when we sit together, he does to me (my legs, feet, trousers or arms) this grooming thing they do to themselves, when they altogether themselves wit their front teeth. I would guess it is a sign of caring for me, but he won't let go when I tell him No, the more i try to stop him the more stubbornly he does it, so is it perhaps a way of showing dominance over me?
He is neutered by the way.
He had...

A: Yes it is a way that dogs show dominance. You trouble to do a few things to stop him from doing that or you may have other problems as time goes on. One way is do not let him sit on the same furniture as you and do not sit on the floor with him. When he comes next to you do not pet him unless he is sitting. This will show him he must do what you want to get a reward. If he starts licking that is still a sign of dominance so that should not be allowed. When leaving the board do not let him go...

I am bothersome to find a website that sells a dog grooming pouch. The pouch attaches to the grooming arm on the table and holds a small dog in the air with its legs hanging for soft access to the legs and feet.

A: Go here: http://www.showdogstore.com/?gclid=COXYuM3lkI0CFQqtOAodLGH6oA or another dog-show supplier. They have ALL kinds of things. You can even get them wholesale at some sites. use luck!

specifically grooming tables with arm and Nautical bend(35"x24")

A: I improper all my equipt. and have it shipped. I don't think that the pet stores and grooming shops in your area will carry grooming tables. But they might.
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